Caught in the AI Revolution: Are Parents Prepared?
Parental Perspectives: Embracing or Resisting AI in Our Schools
The other day, as I was waiting for my boys to finish their karate training, I was talking with a friend, a fellow parent too. I asked them if they feared in any way that our third graders were already using AI-powered games in school for educational purposes.
I was left amazed at their shrug. They genuinely didn’t think much of the topic. There was a certain distancing, as the other parent mentioned: “I use AI every day at work anyway, it just makes life easier.”
Another parent, overhearing our conversation, somehow agreed, saying that “AI can help my child learn at their own pace!”
In contrast, another parent showed some concern: 'I worry that using AI will prevent my child's ability to think independently.'
These contrasting views somehow highlighted the spectrum of parental sentiments around AI in education. It also prompted me to write this article, seeking more perspectives from our readers.
That seemingly banal conversation left me questioning:
Are we becoming desensitized to the implications of AI in our children's education?
What do you think?
In this article, I would like to explore the diverse attitudes parents hold toward AI's role in education and its impact on child development. I welcome your help with adding more perspectives on this topic.
There is a significant percentage of parents who do recognize the importance of AI in their children's education.
While 88% of parents believe that knowledge of AI is crucial for their children's futures, a staggering 81% are unsure if AI is even part of their child's curriculum. This disconnect raises an important question: How can we prepare our children for a future we barely understand ourselves?
This means there is certainly a gap in understanding and engagement with the topic.
Concerns About AI
I am concerned about the implications of AI on our children’s development.
As a parent, I often wonder how we could balance the convenience of AI tools with the need for our children to develop critical thinking skills. Do kids need these tools from early school age even? How does this usage of generative AI impact brain development?
Are we inadvertently fostering a generation that relies too heavily on technology?
It appears that nearly three-quarters (72%) of parents worry about AI's impact on children and teens, particularly regarding data privacy and the potential for AI to negatively affect critical thinking skills. However, only a small percentage actively seek out information to better understand AI technologies.
So unless someone offers parents the resources to study, they would not seek them out on their own.
Should we blame this on their hectic schedules? Or perhaps they don’t realize the importance of learning about AI technologies as they become more and more used in our everyday lives? Do you see other reasons here?
Overwhelm with Rapid Development
Some parents most likely feel overwhelmed by the fast pace of AI development in both educational settings and workplaces. Many would probably just take it for granted by now.
Why question everything, especially the technology that helps with email writing, instant grammar checks, and quick resolution of tasks at work?
At the same time, the rapid evolution of technology can create anxiety about how it will affect job markets and educational standards. Does it affect you?
Many parents are trying to deal with the implications of generative AI not just in schools but also in professional environments. Parents might feel unprepared to compete or adapt. Maybe they just give up and try to keep living a seemingly modern life.

Should education adapt by teaching AI proper usage and how to reword AI-generated content for it to sound human?
While I believe that students should first and foremost develop the basic skills of writing, reading, and reasoning, AI technologies are here to stay. They are already needed to be taught in schools, but from what age it is debatable.
It can be controversial, but that’s why this is a topic that should be talked about more both in schools and inside the family.
Still, only 12% of parents believe that AI and related technologies should not be a part of the high school curriculum.
Hargrave agrees: “...it should be mandatory for curriculums to teach the proper usage of AI, and how taking what the AI writes verbatim is considered plagiarism. Teaching students to take AI generated content and reword it in their own words, the same way they would reword the work of a human, is an essential skill that students will need to learn.” (AI Education Survey)
Until when will we care about AI-generated content sounding human?
We find out here that parents have many questions about the use of AI in schools and would be willing to learn more about the implications and AI technologies in general.
Uninformed parents
So while many parents are aware of and concerned about generative AI's role in education, there is a significant number who remain uninformed about its practical applications in their children's learning environments.
We need better communication from schools about AI integration and more resources for parents to learn how to navigate this evolving situation.
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What an interesting conversation. Thank you Gabby for sharing these perspectives. I prefer human knowledge and experience but I think the future is moving toward AI with a very high speed. I hope we will not forget how to have human interactions, community and support for each other. The future does worry for me when we think of the way the children are growing up now..
Where to begin? The quote you use from Hargrave covers a good part of it BUT. If you're a parent and you want to teach your child how to think beyond the box, teach them how to communicate with the wisdom of the ages and expand their own knowledge exponentially. Questions like, "What if we... Or what would be the anticipated result by changing... hopefully you can see where I'm going. Curiosity is one of the 25 Character Traits we teach young minds at TinyTales.Press. Adding AI as a teaching tool can expand one's knowledge and it's application of in ways not previously thought of.